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Zivai Mutokonyi

Zivai Mutokonyi, BACP

United Kingdom

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Counsellor - Relationships and Anger

  • Client-Centred Therapy
  • Communication problems
  • Immigration issues

About Zivai

Zivai Mutokonyi is a counsellor registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and has 13 years of professional experience. She works with people facing relationship strain, family matters, stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy concerns, anger, self-esteem issues, career questions and depression. Zivai also supports clients with life changes and coaching-style work to clarify goals.

Her main approach is Client-Centred Therapy, which means conversations focus on the client's perspective and experience. Sessions are led by the client's priorities and Zivai listens to what matters most to them. She helps people talk through communication problems, immigration-related pressures, infidelity, questions of life purpose, and multicultural or discrimination stresses.

Zivai works in English and Shona and accepts international clients. She draws on thirteen years of practice to offer straightforward, practical conversation rather than jargon. Clients can expect direct discussion about patterns that feed anger or resentment and steps to try in daily life to reduce flare-ups and rebuild calmer responses.

She uses a collaborative style to set goals and try different ways of handling challenging moments. This can include rehearsing responses, noticing triggers, or exploring how past experiences shape current reactions. The emphasis is on clear, usable changes in how someone communicates and copes.

To begin, clients follow the site process to match and book a first session. Zivai’s work aims to help people make steady progress on the issues that brought them to therapy.

How Client-Centred Work Translates to Online Sessions

Client-Centred Therapy places the client's experience at the heart of the work. The approach involves open listening, reflecting back what the client says, and following their priorities. It helps with relationship friction, anger that shows up in close relationships, stress, and decisions about career or life direction.

The collaborative part of therapy is important. The therapist and client will talk about which ways of working feel most helpful. Together they decide on goals, try different responses in sessions, and adjust the approach as needs and preferences become clearer.

Practical benefits of doing this work remotely depend on the session formats available. The biography does not specify formats here, so confirm current session options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions around work and family life, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when schedules are tight. It also means the therapist can use conversation exercises and brief at-home tasks between meetings to build calmer responses to anger in everyday situations.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflicts

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changesCoaching

Additional focus areas

Communication problemsImmigration issuesInfidelityLife purposeMulticultural concernsPrejudice and discriminationSelf-love

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered Therapy

Experience

13+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English, Shona

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she help with?

Zivai works with relationship strain, family conflict, stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy issues, anger, self-esteem, career matters, depression and coping with life changes.

Which therapeutic style does she use?

She practises Client-Centred Therapy, focusing sessions on the client's perspective and priorities to guide the conversation and goals.

How much experience does she have?

She has 13 years of professional experience working with people across a range of relationship and personal issues.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is registered with the BACP and is based in the United Kingdom.

Can sessions be held in other languages?

Sessions are offered in English and Shona.

Does she work with international clients?

Yes. International clients are accepted.

How are sessions paid for and what do they cost?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin a first session?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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