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Desiree Malam

Desiree Malam, LPC

Missouri

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Licensed Professional Counselor - Relationships and Anger

  • CBT methods
  • DBT skills
  • Trauma focus

About Desiree

Desiree Malam is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Missouri with 15 years of experience. She helps people who are dealing with stress, anxiety, relationship strain, trauma and abuse, grief, depression, and anger. Desiree also supports clients facing issues around self-esteem, intimacy, parenting, career shifts, and ADHD challenges.

She uses practical, evidence-informed approaches in sessions. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) are regular parts of her work. She also draws on Motivational Interviewing, Solution-Focused Therapy, and Trauma-Focused Therapy when appropriate.

Desiree keeps conversations direct and focused. She helps people identify patterns of thinking and behavior that feed frustration and resentment. Together they practice skills for managing strong feelings, improving communication, and setting clearer boundaries.

Her background includes long-term practice with clients facing relationship and family problems, blended family concerns, caregiver stress, and difficulties after separation or divorce. She also offers support for survivors of sexual assault and domestic violence, and for people coping with postpartum depression and self-harm thoughts.

Sessions emphasize concrete skills and short-term goals when useful, alongside work on deeper trauma when needed. Desiree invites clients to try tools, notice what changes, and adjust plans over time. Prospective clients should confirm current session options before booking.

How her approaches translate to online sessions

CBT focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and testing them in daily life. Online or in-person, it provides step-by-step tools for reducing anxiety, anger, and avoidance by changing thinking and behavior patterns.

DBT teaches skills for managing intense emotions, tolerating distress, and improving interpersonal effectiveness. In an online setting these skills are practiced through instructive exercises, role plays, and regular check-ins to track how new strategies are unfolding in everyday situations.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Desiree will collaborate with each person to decide whether CBT, DBT, trauma-focused work, or a mix fits best given their goals and preferences. She adjusts the plan as progress and challenges become clearer.

The biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm current options before booking. Many people find online sessions help fit therapy into a busy week, allow shorter check-ins during breaks, or remove travel time. Talk with her about practical scheduling needs and how sessions can be arranged to fit daily life.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

LGBTFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCoachingADHD

Additional focus areas

Blended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCommunication problemsDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily problemsForgivenessMidlife crisisPostpartum depressionSelf-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobia

Therapeutic approaches

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Motivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

15+ years

Listed in

Missouri

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she address?

She works with stress, anxiety, relationship problems, trauma and abuse, grief, depression, anger, and related issues such as self-esteem and parenting.

Which therapeutic approaches does she use?

She uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Motivational Interviewing, Solution-Focused Therapy, and Trauma-Focused Therapy depending on the client's needs.

How long has she practiced?

She has 15 years of professional experience working with people on a range of emotional and relational concerns.

What credential and location are listed?

She is a Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, practicing in Missouri.

Does she offer sessions in other languages or to international clients?

Sessions are offered in English and she does not accept international clients at this time.

What session formats are available?

Session formats are not specified in the biography; please confirm the current session options before booking.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

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