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Rafaela DeSoto-Ray

Rafaela DeSoto-Ray, LPC

Texas

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Licensed Professional Counselor - Anger and Mood concerns

  • CBT methods
  • Client-centered focus
  • Solution-focused steps

About Rafaela

Rafaela DeSoto-Ray is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Texas with 25 years of experience. She works with adults who are dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, anger, relationship problems, and other life changes. She also supports people facing trauma, grief, sleep difficulties, parenting strains, and mood concerns such as bipolar disorder.

Rafaela uses a mix of approaches rather than one fixed method. She draws on Client-Centered Therapy to listen and help people build on their own strengths. She uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help identify thoughts and behaviors that keep problems going. She also applies Solution-Focused Therapy to create practical steps toward immediate goals.

In sessions she aims to offer at least one usable idea or skill each week. That might mean practicing a different way to respond to anger, testing a small behavior change, or trying a new communication technique. Her work includes attention to developmental and behavioral disorders, head trauma, dementia, and related neurological conditions when these affect daily life.

She approaches therapy as a collaboration. Rafaela treats clients as the experts on their own lives and looks for practical ways to reduce distress. She is willing to try different techniques until something helps the person make a small, measurable change outside the session.

Rafaela practices in Texas and holds the LPC credential. Sessions are conducted in English. If you want to begin, the process starts by completing a brief matching questionnaire and scheduling a first session.

How her approaches translate to online work

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening and building on a person's strengths. Online sessions using this approach center on understanding the client's perspective and boosting skills they already have. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) breaks problems into thoughts, feelings, and actions and gives practical exercises to change unhelpful patterns; online CBT can include homework and quick behavior experiments people try between sessions. Solution-Focused Therapy emphasizes small, concrete steps and short-term goal-setting to create visible shifts in daily life.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Rafaela will collaborate with each person to decide which techniques to try first, and will adjust methods based on progress, goals, and preferences. The plan evolves in conversation rather than being fixed at the start.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so confirm current online options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy schedule, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce commute time. It also supports trying practical exercises at home and following up with behavioral assignments between visits.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Family conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementBipolar disorder

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMood disordersPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressSexual assault and abuseSexualitySomatizationTraumatic brain injury

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Solution-Focused Therapy

Experience

25+ years

Listed in

Texas

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, anger, relationship issues, grief, sleep problems, parenting challenges, trauma and mood concerns including bipolar disorder.

What is her therapeutic style?

She uses an eclectic, practical style drawing on Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Solution-Focused Therapy to try different techniques that fit the person.

How much experience does she have?

Rafaela has 25 years of professional experience working with adults across a range of emotional and behavioral concerns.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) licensed in Texas and practices in that state.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English.

Does she work with international clients?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How does payment or cost work?

Cost varies with location; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started?

Choose the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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