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Nicola "Nicky" McCaffrey

Nicola "Nicky" McCaffrey, BACP

United Kingdom

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Counsellor - Anger and Anxiety

  • Client-centred approach
  • Cognitive behavioural tools
  • Works with LGBTQI+

About Nicola

Nicola "Nicky" McCaffrey is a counsellor registered with the BACP and has five years of experience working in the United Kingdom. She helps people facing stress, anxiety, depression, relationship strain, grief and anger. Nicky also supports those dealing with sleep problems, low self-esteem, career pressures and life changes. Sessions are conducted in English and she does not take international clients.

Nicky primarily works in a client-centred way. That means she focuses on listening and helping people feel heard. She will also introduce practical strategies from cognitive behavioural therapy when that fits the issue. The emphasis is on clear, everyday tools and on talking through what is difficult.

Her background includes work in Talking Therapies and supporting people in suicidal distress. She has experience with a wide range of people, including those who identify as neurodivergent and people within LGBTQI+ communities. This experience informs how she responds to issues such as attachment, abandonment and isolation.

In sessions she may help clients develop coping mechanisms, decision-making options and ways to manage strong feelings. She addresses concerns like control issues, communication problems and commitment worries. Practical steps and steady conversation are used rather than technical jargon.

Clients bring a mix of life concerns, from body image and guilt to career or family-related strain. Nicky aims to help people build resilience so they can handle future challenges more confidently. To begin, people complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule a first session.

How her approaches translate to online work

Client-centred work focuses on listening and understanding a person's experience. Online this involves the counsellor giving space to talk, reflecting what is said and helping the client feel heard. It is useful for issues like loneliness, identity concerns and grieving.

Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) looks at how thoughts, feelings and actions connect. In online sessions CBT can include practical exercises, behaviour experiments and planning small changes to test between meetings. This approach suits problems such as anxiety, unhelpful thinking and sleep difficulties.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The counsellor will discuss your goals, try different methods and check what helps. Decisions about which tools to use are made together, based on your needs and preferences.

Session logistics should be confirmed before booking because formats are not specified in the biography. Ask which options are available and how they fit your life. Online work can make it easier to fit counselling into a busy week, allow shorter check-ins when needed and reduce travel time. Registered or accredited professionals and therapists often use these practical benefits to help people maintain regular contact and steady progress.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefSleeping disordersAnger managementCareer difficultiesADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesBody imageCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationEmptinessForgivenessGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisMood disordersPrejudice and discriminationSelf-loveSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

Experience

5+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, anger, grief and related concerns such as low self-esteem and sleep difficulties.

How would she work with my anger?

She uses a mainly client-centred approach and may add cognitive behavioural strategies to help you notice triggers and try different responses.

What experience does she bring?

She has five years' experience, including roles in Talking Therapies and supporting people in suicidal distress.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is registered with the BACP and practises in the United Kingdom.

Can I work with her if I don't live in the UK?

Sessions are offered in English and she is not currently accepting international clients.

Which session formats are offered?

Please confirm current session options before booking, as the biography does not specify formats.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I get started?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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