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Benjamin ('Beni') Fleischer

Benjamin ('Beni') Fleischer, BACP

United Kingdom

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Counsellor - Anger and relationships

  • Client-Centred Therapy
  • Psychodynamic Therapy
  • Solution-Focused Therapy

About Benjamin

Benjamin ('Beni') Fleischer is a counsellor registered with the BACP with six years' experience in the United Kingdom. He helps people who struggle with stress, anxiety, relationship problems, low self-esteem, depression, grief and anger. He also works with people facing trauma, family troubles and major life changes such as separation or illness.

Beni describes how much of our lives sits beneath the surface. He talks about revealed and hidden parts of experience - the things we can point to and the things that shape us quietly, like family, community and belief. He aims to help people notice those hidden parts so they can make clearer choices and feel less stuck.

His way of working is conversational and reflective. Sessions include listening, exploring background and patterns, and identifying small, practical steps to try. He draws on client-centred listening, psychodynamic thinking about long-standing patterns, and solution-focused ideas for short-term change.

Beni has worked with people from varied backgrounds, including time spent counselling within the NHS. He often supports men in mid-life who are re-evaluating roles, identity and relationships, though he works with a broad range of concerns. He says his own experience of change shapes how he understands clients' struggles.

He follows the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy ethical framework. Language options include English, Hebrew and Yiddish, and he is able to work with international clients. To begin, users are asked to complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule a first session.

How his approaches translate to online work

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening and following what the person brings to a session. It helps when someone needs a steady, non-directive space to talk through anger, loss or doubts and find what matters to them.

Psychodynamic Therapy looks at patterns that repeat across relationships and time. It aims to bring awareness to hidden influences so people can choose differently rather than react automatically to old triggers.

Solution-Focused Therapy concentrates on small, practical steps and what works now. It is useful for people who want short-term strategies to reduce anger spikes, improve communication or manage stress at work.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss goals and preferences and together they will try methods that suit the person’s needs. This is a collaborative process that may shift over time as what helps becomes clearer.

Confirm which session formats are available before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy day, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce travel time. Registered or accredited professionals and therapists often find online work convenient for people living abroad, those with limited local options, or anyone needing a way to keep appointments alongside other commitments.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Family conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefAnger managementBipolar disorder

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAvoidant personalityCancerCodependencyCommitment issuesControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSexual dysfunctionSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

6+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English, Hebrew, Yiddish

Frequently asked questions

Which concerns does he help with?

He works with stress, anxiety, relationship issues, low self-esteem, depression, grief, anger and related problems such as trauma and family difficulties.

What is his therapeutic style?

He combines listening and reflection with practical steps. His work mixes client-centred listening, psychodynamic thinking and solution-focused techniques.

How much experience does he have?

He has six years' experience working as a counsellor in the United Kingdom, including counselling within the NHS.

What credential does he hold and where is he based?

He is registered with the BACP and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English, Hebrew and Yiddish.

Can he work with international clients?

Yes, he accepts international clients.

How are sessions arranged and what do they cost?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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