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Dominic Valdes

Dominic Valdes, LCSW

California

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Licensed Clinical Social Worker - Anger and Relationships

  • CBT techniques
  • DBT skills
  • Trauma informed EMDR

About Dominic

Dominic Valdes is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, practicing in California with 17 years of experience. He works with adults facing stress, anxiety, depression, relationship problems, addiction concerns, and anger. He also supports people in the LGBT community navigating issues like gender dysphoria, HIV/AIDS, and intimacy-related concerns.

Dominic uses straightforward, evidence-informed methods to help people manage strong emotions. He draws from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectical Behavior Therapy to teach skills for handling frustration, reducing reactivity, and changing unhelpful thought patterns. He also offers Client-Centered work that focuses on what matters most to the individual.

When trauma and abuse are part of the picture, EMDR is one of the approaches he may use to address distressing memories. For relationship difficulties, he incorporates elements of the Gottman Method to improve communication and rebuild trust after infidelity or betrayal. He takes a practical approach to issues like addiction, jealousy, and commitment concerns.

Dominic pays attention to sexual diversity and alternative relationship styles, including kink and non-monogamy. He helps people talk through shame, manage jealousy, and set boundaries that fit their values. He also supports clients working through abandonment and attachment issues.

Sessions focus on concrete skills, realistic behavior changes, and clear next steps. People who come for help with anger get techniques for cooling down, understanding triggers, and repairing relationships after outbursts. Dominic encourages steady progress rather than quick fixes.

How Dominic uses evidence-based approaches online

Dominic frequently uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to identify unhelpful thought patterns and test new behaviors. CBT helps with anxiety, anger, and changing reactions that cause problems at work or in relationships.

He also draws on Dialectical Behavior Therapy to teach concrete emotion regulation and interpersonal skills. DBT focuses on managing intense feelings, reducing impulsive reactions, and improving communication under stress.

EMDR may be used when past trauma contributes to current distress. EMDR aims to reduce the hold of painful memories so people can respond more calmly in daily life.

Finding the right approach is collaborative. Dominic discusses goals, past treatment, and current struggles, then recommends methods that fit the client's needs and preferences. He adjusts strategies over time based on what is helpful.

Please confirm current session options before booking, as formats are not listed here. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life - for example a shorter check-in during a break, avoiding travel time, or choosing sessions that don't require being on camera. Licensed professionals adapt pacing and tools so practical skills can be learned and practiced between meetings.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

AddictionsIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementSelf esteem

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureCommitment issuesControl issuesDrug and alcohol addictionFamily problemsGender dysphoriaHIV / AIDSInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyMen's issuesNarcissismPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Sex addictionSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Gottman MethodMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

17+ years

Listed in

California

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does he address?

He works with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship problems, addictions, anger, and related issues such as attachment, infidelity, and sexual health concerns.

What is his therapeutic style?

He combines Client-Centered work with Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectical Behavior Therapy to teach skills and explore personal values in a direct, practical way.

How much experience does he have?

Dominic has 17 years of clinical experience as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in California.

Where is he licensed and based?

He practices in California and holds the credential CA LCSW.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English.

Does he work with clients outside the United States?

He does not accept international clients at this time.

How are sessions paid for?

Cost varies with location; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin a first session?

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