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Ilona Rakauskaite

Ilona Rakauskaite, BACP

United Kingdom

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BACP counsellor - Stress and Anger support

  • Attachment based therapy
  • Mindfulness tools
  • Hypnotherapy options

About Ilona

Ilona Rakauskaite is a BACP counsellor practising in the United Kingdom with seven years of experience. She works with adults facing stress, anxiety, grief, and problems with self‑esteem. Anger and relationship worries are included among the concerns she helps people with.

Ilona uses straightforward, person-focused ways of working. She treats the person as the expert on their life and looks for strengths to build on. Sessions aim to clarify what feels most pressing and to find small, workable steps forward.

Her approach draws on attachment-based ideas and client-centred ways of talking. She also uses hypnotherapy and mindfulness techniques where these suit a client. Motivational interviewing and solution-focused thinking are chosen when someone wants help with practical change, for example around career decisions or addictions.

Ilona has supported people dealing with loss, trauma and compassion fatigue. She also works with those who are navigating separation, communication problems, codependency and control issues. Additional concerns listed include autism and attachment difficulties.

Sessions are offered in English and Lithuanian, and she accepts international clients. Costs vary by location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time. To begin, clients complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule a first session.

How her approaches translate to online work

Ilona integrates attachment-based work and mindfulness in online sessions. Attachment-based therapy looks at how past relationships shape current patterns and helps people notice and change repeated reactions, which can be useful for anger and relationship strain. Mindfulness therapy offers practical exercises to reduce reactivity and notice bodily signals before tension rises.

She also draws on client-centred methods that focus on the person's perspective and on motivational interviewing when someone wants to make specific changes. Choosing the right approach is a shared process. The therapist and client discuss goals, try techniques, and adjust the plan together based on what feels most helpful.

Confirm the available session formats before booking because the biography does not list specific options. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions around work, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. It also makes it possible to continue care for clients who live abroad, as Ilona accepts international clients and offers sessions in English and Lithuanian.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsAnger managementCareer difficultiesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameImmigration issuesInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSelf-harmSelf-loveSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyHypnotherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

7+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English, Lithuanian

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, grief, self‑esteem and anger among other concerns such as relationship and career difficulties.

What is her therapeutic style like?

She uses client‑centred and attachment‑based approaches, focusing on clients' strengths and practical steps forward.

How much experience does she have?

Ilona has seven years of professional experience working with adults across a range of emotional and adjustment issues.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and Lithuanian, and she can work with international clients.

How are sessions delivered?

Please confirm the current session options before booking as the biography does not list specific session formats.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location; sessions are billed through a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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