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Nicole Kaldani

Nicole Kaldani, BACP

United Kingdom

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Counsellor - anger and emotional regulation

  • Client-Centred Therapy
  • Cognitive Behavioural Therapy
  • Psychodynamic Therapy

About Nicole

Nicole Kaldani is a counsellor registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) with four years of practice in the United Kingdom. She works with adults on issues such as stress, anxiety, relationship strain, parenting pressures and anger. Nicole also supports people dealing with trauma, addiction, bipolar mood swings, and concerns around intimacy and self-esteem.

Nicole identifies as neurodivergent and uses that lived experience to adapt how she works. She explains things plainly and adjusts communication to suit each person’s sensory and interaction preferences. Sessions move at a pace set by the client and can include reflective, creative, or embodied elements when helpful.

Her approach draws on client-centred conversation, cognitive behavioural ideas and psychodynamic thinking. That means Nicole focuses on what matters to the client now, looks at thought and behaviour patterns that keep problems going, and pays attention to deeper relationship and life themes that affect feelings. She mixes practical strategies with time to understand history and emotional meaning.

Nicole offers online counselling aimed at people who have found traditional settings difficult or overwhelming. She is comfortable working with matters like family problems, grief, ADHD-related challenges, panic attacks, process addictions and issues around shame or isolation. Sessions are shaped together so the work stays relevant to day-to-day life.

If someone wants to begin, they complete a short matching questionnaire and book a first session. The subscription used for sessions can be cancelled at any time and international clients are accepted.

How therapeutic approaches translate to online sessions

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening and following what matters to the client. In practice this means the counsellor reflects back concerns, asks clarifying questions, and helps the client steer the conversation towards practical goals and emotional clarity.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) looks at the links between thoughts, feelings and actions. Online CBT often involves identifying patterns that keep anger going, testing new responses, and practising skills between sessions to reduce reactivity.

Psychodynamic Therapy pays attention to recurring relationship themes and past experiences that shape how someone responds to stress. Online sessions can allow space to notice these patterns and consider different ways of relating in daily life.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The counsellor will collaborate with the client to decide which methods to try, adjust them over time, and balance short-term strategies with deeper exploration according to the client's goals and preferences.

Online counselling can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week and to work from a quieter setting that suits the client. It can also allow shorter check-ins or sessions that do not require being on camera if that helps with concentration or sensory comfort. Confirm the specific session formats available before booking so arrangements match practical needs.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsSelf esteemDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingADHD

Additional focus areas

Antisocial personalityAvoidant personalityFamily problemsGuilt and shameHoardingIsolation / lonelinessJealousyPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaVisually impairedYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Psychodynamic Therapy

Experience

4+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

Which kinds of anger issues are addressed here?

Nicole works with losing temper, building resentment, coping with someone else's anger, and related problems such as intimacy or parenting tensions.

How would she approach my temper or outbursts?

The approach blends client-centred talking, cognitive behavioural strategies to change unhelpful thoughts and actions, and psychodynamic reflection on deeper patterns that shape emotions.

What experience does she bring to anger work?

Nicole has four years of counselling experience and uses her lived neurodivergent perspective to adapt how she works with people's communication and sensory needs.

What are Nicole's credentials and location?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practises from the United Kingdom.

Can I work with her if English is not my first language?

Sessions are offered in English and international clients are accepted.

How are sessions delivered?

Confirm the current session options before booking as the original biography did not list specific formats.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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