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Elena Simona Lazar

Elena Simona Lazar, BACP

United Kingdom

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Counsellor - relationships and anger

  • Client-centred listening
  • Internal Family Systems
  • Systemic Therapy

About Elena

Elena Simona Lazar is a counsellor registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and has six years of professional experience in the United Kingdom. She works with adults facing stress, anxiety, relationship and family difficulties, anger, low self-esteem, addiction, trauma and abuse, and related concerns such as intimacy and eating issues.

She draws on a background in nursing alongside counselling studies to look at people as whole individuals, not just a list of symptoms. Sessions focus on clear, practical conversation. Clients can expect straightforward reflection, gentle challenge, and tools to reduce repeated patterns that cause distress.

Her approach mixes client-centred listening with elements from Internal Family Systems and Systemic Therapy. That means she pays attention to how different parts of a person influence feelings and how relationships shape everyday problems. She aims to help people notice recurring reactions and test small changes in how they respond.

In session she works to identify clear goals and simple steps to try between meetings. Common topics she addresses include managing anger, improving communication, rebuilding confidence, and coping with life changes such as divorce or chronic health issues. Practical techniques and dialogue are used alongside deeper work on underlying feelings.

Sessions are carried out in English and Romanian and are offered to people within the United Kingdom. Elena uses her clinical training and life experience to help clients make sense of difficult situations and take manageable steps forward.

How her approaches translate to online work

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on close listening and helping a person describe what matters most. Online sessions can reproduce that simple conversation so the client feels heard and understood. Internal Family Systems looks at different parts inside a person and how they interact; this can be done through dialogue and guided reflection to notice repeated emotional patterns. Systemic Therapy examines relationship dynamics and patterns that play out in family or work settings, helping people test small changes in how they relate to others.

Finding the best approach is part of the work. She will discuss options with each client and decide together which methods fit the client’s needs, goals and preferences. That collaborative process is used to shape each plan rather than committing to one method from the start.

The practical benefits of online sessions are about fitting therapy into everyday life. Many people find it easier to attend from home or between commitments, and online meetings can make shorter check-ins or regular weekly sessions simpler to manage. Confirm the current session options before booking to make sure they suit your schedule and needs.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsAnger managementSelf esteem

Also works with

AddictionsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersParenting issuesCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPostpartum depressionPregnancy and childbirthSelf-loveSexual dysfunctionSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyInternal Family SystemsSystemic Therapy

Experience

6+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English, Romanian

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she address related to anger?

She works with adults on anger that shows up in relationships, at work, or as built-up resentment. Anger is listed alongside related issues such as stress, trauma and communication problems.

How would you describe her therapy style?

She uses a client-centred approach that emphasises listening and collaboration. Sessions combine practical techniques with exploration of emotional patterns.

How much experience does she have?

She has six years of professional experience in the United Kingdom and a prior career in nursing that informs her clinical perspective.

What professional credential does she hold?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, shown as BACP.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and Romanian.

Can people outside the UK work with her?

International clients are not currently accepted; her practice is based in the United Kingdom.

How are sessions arranged and paid for?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

What is the first step to start sessions?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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