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Jonetta Wakely

Jonetta Wakely, LPC

Oklahoma

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Licensed Professional Counselor - Anger and Anxiety

  • CBT methods
  • DBT skills
  • Attachment work

About Jonetta

Jonetta Wakely is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Oklahoma with 20 years of experience. She works with adults on stress, anxiety, relationship strain, parenting challenges, trauma and abuse, depression, anger, self-esteem, and career concerns. Jonetta asks clients to describe what matters to them and uses that as the starting point for sessions.

She keeps conversations practical and focused on choices that lead to a life worth living. Jonetta does not frame problems as good or bad. Instead she looks at what has worked so far and what might work better going forward. Sessions involve talking through patterns, testing different strategies, and deciding on steps that fit day-to-day life.

Her background includes substantial training in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectical Behavior Therapy. Jonetta uses those approaches alongside attachment and mindfulness-based ideas when they fit a client’s goals. She explains methods plainly and suggests tools clients can try between meetings.

People choose her when they want clear feedback and concrete ways to handle angry reactions, reduce stress, or improve communication. Jonetta supports work on underlying issues such as abandonment, attachment concerns, codependency, and caregiver stress when those relate to current problems.

She also addresses complex presentations, including dissociation, co-morbidity, and mood regulation difficulties. Sessions are aimed at helping clients notice patterns, experiment with new responses, and build more reliable ways of coping over time.

How her therapeutic approaches translate to online sessions

Jonetta uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectical Behavior Therapy in straightforward ways. CBT looks at the links between thoughts, feelings, and actions and uses exercises to test new ways of thinking and behaving. It helps with anxiety, anger, and depression by breaking problems into manageable steps. DBT focuses on practical skills for managing intense emotions, tolerating distress, and improving interpersonal effectiveness, which can be useful when anger affects relationships.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. She will collaborate with each client to decide which methods fit their goals and day-to-day life. That means trying out strategies, reviewing what helps, and adjusting the plan based on results and client preference.

The biography does not specify which remote session formats are used, so confirm the current options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy schedule, reduce travel time, and keep check-ins brief when needed. It can also let clients practice skills between appointments in the settings where their problems occur. Licensed professionals tailor pacing and homework to match what clients can realistically use at home, at work, or while traveling.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

Parenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficulties

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Listed in

Oklahoma

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of anger-related concerns does she help with?

She works with anger that shows up in relationships, at work, or as simmering resentment. She also helps people who live with someone else’s anger.

How would you describe her style in sessions?

She keeps sessions practical and choice-focused, asking clients what matters to them and testing strategies that fit daily life.

How much experience does she have?

She has 20 years of clinical experience working with stress, trauma, mood, and relationship concerns.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) licensed in Oklahoma and practices from that state.

Which languages are supported and can international clients connect?

Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not list specific session formats. Please confirm current session options before booking.

How does payment work and what does it cost?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started if I want to work together?

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