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Joy Nussen

Joy Nussen, LMFT

Oregon

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Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist - Anger and Relationships

  • CHIPS Model focus
  • Practical skills work
  • Communication tools

About Joy

Joy Nussen is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) with 32 years of experience practicing in California and Oregon. She works with individual adults who are coping with stress, anxiety, relationship problems, trauma and abuse, grief, depression, addictions, anger, self-esteem and life changes. She speaks English and works with people from diverse backgrounds.

Her sessions are straightforward and practical. She listens for the stories people tell themselves and looks for patterns that keep problems repeating. She uses clear, goal-focused steps and sometimes light humor to help people notice unhelpful thinking, communication traps, and behavior that blocks progress.

Joy draws from several evidence-based techniques to shape her work. Her CHIPS Model outlines common areas she checks in on - thoughts and comparisons, communication habits, control and substance concerns, and attention to physical and emotional needs. She also emphasizes skills work, honesty, patience, and increasing self-awareness to reduce reactivity and manage anger or impulsivity.

Her approach is active and engaging rather than purely reflective. Clients can expect practical tools for managing triggers, improving how they speak up, and breaking cycles that fuel resentment or impulsive choices. She highlights context such as culture, family history, and health when making sense of behavior.

Joy encourages people to try small changes, notice what shifts, and build on what works. To begin, readers are asked to use the site button to view online therapy options, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule an initial session.

How therapeutic techniques are used in online sessions

Joy uses a blend of focused, evidence-based techniques to address anger, impulsivity, and relationship problems. One approach she uses is cognitive work that helps people notice distorted thoughts and test whether their automatic interpretations match reality; this helps lower reactivity and reduce unfair blame. Another common strand is communication skills training, which teaches concrete ways to express needs, set boundaries, and interrupt stonewalling or escalation patterns.

She also integrates experiential elements that encourage paying attention to bodily cues and practicing small behavior changes in real life. These methods help when someone wants specific tools to manage bursts of anger or to change patterns with a partner or coworker. Joy treats deciding which mix to use as a collaborative process; she works with each person to identify goals, try techniques, and adjust the plan based on what helps.

Session logistics should be confirmed before booking because formats are not listed here. Online work can make it easier to fit regular sessions into a busy week, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when schedules are tight. Talk with her when you match to learn which session formats she currently offers and how she recommends structuring sessions to fit your life.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBlended family issuesCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismPost-traumatic stressSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Experience

32+ years

Listed in

California, Oregon

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she address?

She works with adults around stress, anxiety, relationship conflict, trauma, grief, depression, addictions, anger, self-esteem, career strain and life changes.

What is her general therapy style?

Her style is active and engaging with practical tools, attention to narratives people tell themselves, and occasional use of humor when appropriate.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has 32 years of experience working in a range of settings and with diverse adult populations.

What are her credentials and where does she practice?

She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) licensed in California and Oregon and practices from Oregon.

Does she work in other languages or accept international clients?

Sessions are offered in English, and she does not accept international clients at this time.

Which session formats are offered?

Session formats are not specified here; please confirm current session options before booking.

How are fees handled?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I start working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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