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Melanie Lingley

Melanie Lingley, NCPS

United Kingdom

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Counsellor - Anger and Relationships

  • CBT techniques
  • Mindfulness skills
  • Client-centred work

About Melanie

Melanie Lingley is a counsellor registered with NCPS and has nine years of experience in the United Kingdom. She works with people who are dealing with stress, anxiety, low self-esteem, depression, relationship strains, family conflict, trauma and abuse, grief, parenting pressures, intimacy issues and anger. She uses everyday language in sessions and focuses on practical steps that clients can try between meetings.

Clients can expect conversations that look at patterns in thinking and behaviour. Melanie uses a mix of approaches to help people understand how thoughts, feelings and relationships interact. She often offers straightforward exercises to try outside sessions and brings attention to small changes that add up.

Her background combines work with adults facing life shifts and interpersonal problems. She draws on Client-Centred Therapy to make space for a client's perspective, and on Cognitive Behavioural Therapy for practical thought and behaviour work. Mindfulness techniques are used to help with stress and anxiety, while psychodynamic ideas can help uncover past patterns that still matter now.

Melanie explains things plainly and keeps sessions focused on what a person wants to change. She helps clients notice triggers, practise new responses, and build clearer boundaries with others. The emphasis is on steady, manageable work rather than quick fixes.

If someone is unsure how to begin, Melanie asks simple questions about current struggles and goals. She then suggests small, concrete steps to try and checks progress in later sessions. This approach suits people who want clear tools and thoughtful reflection.

How Melanie’s approaches translate to online sessions

Melanie draws on Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to identify unhelpful thinking and test new behaviours. CBT often involves short exercises and practical strategies for stress, anxiety and anger, which can be reviewed between meetings.

She also uses Client-Centred Therapy, which focuses on the person's own perspective and priorities. That approach helps clarify what matters most and guides how other techniques are used.

Finding the right mix of methods is part of the work. Melanie will talk with each person about goals and preferences and then agree a plan together. This collaborative approach helps match techniques to day-to-day challenges and makes adjustments as progress is reviewed.

The biography does not specify session formats, so confirm current options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. It can also let people practise techniques in the settings where their issues arise. Many therapists and registered or accredited professionals use these benefits to keep therapy practical and workable within everyday life.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsSelf esteemDepression

Also works with

Trauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressControl issuesDivorce and separationDomestic violenceFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPost-traumatic stressSelf-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic Therapy

Experience

9+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of anger or related concerns does she address?

She works with general anger alongside stress, anxiety, relationship strain, family problems, low self-esteem and grief.

What style of therapy does she use?

She mixes client-centred conversations with Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and mindfulness, and may draw on psychodynamic ideas when helpful.

How much experience does she have?

She has nine years of professional work experience in therapeutic settings in the United Kingdom.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is registered with NCPS and practices in the United Kingdom.

Does she work in languages other than English?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients book sessions?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are sessions paid for and what does it cost?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start therapy with her?

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