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Michael Valdes

Michael Valdes, LCSW

Tennessee

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Licensed Clinical Social Worker - Anger and Relationships

  • CBT strategies
  • DBT skills
  • ACT practices

About Michael

Michael Valdes is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in Tennessee with 17 years of experience. He sees adults who are frustrated by anger, relationship strain, addiction, depression, anxiety, and life transitions. He works with people who want clearer boundaries, less reactivity, and better day-to-day coping.

Michael blends practical skills with straightforward conversation. Sessions tend to focus on patterns that keep problems repeating. He helps clients notice unhelpful thoughts, practice new responses, and try small behavioral changes between meetings. He also uses acceptance-based ideas to reduce struggle with painful emotions.

Clients can expect a focus on what feels stuck and what can change. He draws from cognitive behavioral tools to reframe thinking and from dialectical behavior approaches for emotion regulation and distress tolerance. Existential ideas appear when people wrestle with meaning, responsibility, or big life choices.

Michael has helped people facing addictions, relationship and intimacy issues, grief, trauma and abuse, and identity concerns including LGBT matters. He also addresses lesser-discussed topics such as attachment wounds, commitment fears, and kink and alternative sexual cultures. Work can cover practical problem solving, communication skills, and managing shame or guilt.

He describes therapy as a collaborative process. New clients begin by clarifying goals and trying concrete steps that can be measured and adjusted. Sessions are paced to fit each person's needs and focus on usable skills rather than jargon.

How his approaches translate to online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice painful thoughts and feelings without being driven by them and clarify values to guide action. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at the links between thoughts, feelings, and behavior and teaches practical exercises to change unhelpful patterns. Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) offers concrete skills for regulating strong emotions, tolerating distress, and improving communication. Finding the right approach is part of the work. He will collaborate with each person to choose methods that match their goals, needs, and preferences. That means starting with clear goals, trying techniques, and adjusting what isn’t helpful. Because formats are not listed in the biography, confirm current online session options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life - for example a shorter check-in during a work break, avoiding travel time, or choosing a phone session when bandwidth is limited. Therapists and licensed professionals often adapt exercises for video or phone sessions so skills practice and homework remain practical and usable in everyday situations.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsSelf esteemDepression

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyLGBTTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureCancerCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexualityWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

17+ years

Listed in

Tennessee

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does he address related to anger?

He helps people with anger that shows up in relationships, at work, or as ongoing resentment. Anger is listed among many concerns he treats, including addiction and trauma.

What is his general therapy style?

He uses practical, skills-based work and conversational problem solving. Expect exercises you can try between sessions and clear tools for managing reactions.

How much experience does he have?

He has 17 years of clinical experience working with a broad range of issues from mood disorders to substance concerns.

What are his credentials and where is he based?

He is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) practicing in Tennessee.

Which languages are offered and can he see international clients?

Sessions are offered in English. He is not accepting international clients.

What session formats are available?

Session formats are not specified in the biography. Confirm current session options before booking.

How does payment or cost work?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

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