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Dr. Tammy Occhipinti

Dr. Tammy Occhipinti, LMFT

California

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LMFT in California - Anger and Relationships

  • ACT techniques
  • CBT strategies
  • DBT skills

About Tammy

Dr. Tammy Occhipinti is a California-licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) with 22 years of clinical experience. She works with people dealing with stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship strain, grief, and anger. She also helps with depression, sleep problems, parenting concerns, self-esteem, career stress, and life changes.

Her approach is straightforward and person-focused. Sessions center on clear conversation about what is happening now, practical strategies to manage intense feelings, and small steps to test new ways of responding. Tammy uses methods drawn from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Dialectical Behavior Therapy to help people notice unhelpful patterns and try different choices.

When someone wants help with anger, she explores triggers and what typically follows an outburst. That work includes learning skills to calm down sooner, communicating needs without escalation, and making plans for stressful moments. She also addresses related issues like relationship conflict, substance use, or sleep disruption that can feed anger.

Tammy adapts conversations and plans to each person rather than using a one-size-fits-all script. Over time she helps people practice skills between sessions and review what works. Her background includes long-term clinical practice in California and steady work with common life stresses and trauma.

People meet her to get practical tools and clearer options for handling strong emotions. The focus is on usable steps someone can try right away and on building habits that reduce frequent, draining conflicts.

Therapeutic approaches and how online sessions can help

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on helping people notice difficult thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them. It supports choosing actions that line up with values instead of reacting on impulse. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) breaks down how thoughts, feelings, and behaviors interact and uses practical exercises to shift unhelpful patterns. These techniques are often useful for anger, anxiety, and low mood.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with the client to try methods and adjust based on what helps most. Decisions about techniques and pacing are made together, using feedback from real situations the client faces.

The original biography does not specify which session formats are offered, so confirm the current options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy day, shorten commute time, or choose meetings that match energy levels like a shorter check-in when needed. Some methods translate well to remote work because they use exercises, tracking, and skill practice that can be assigned between sessions. Licensed professionals can help pick approaches and formats that fit a person's schedule and goals.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

Family conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesBlended family issuesChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Divorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersPostpartum depressionProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Smoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

22+ years

Listed in

California

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of issues does she help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship problems, grief, depression, anger, sleep issues, parenting concerns, and related life changes.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

She keeps sessions practical and conversational, focusing on skills practice and testing small changes between meetings.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has 22 years of professional experience working with adults on a wide range of emotional and behavioral concerns.

What credentials and where does she practice?

She is an LMFT licensed in California and provides services from that state.

Are sessions available in other languages or to international clients?

Sessions are offered in English and she is not accepting international clients.

What session formats are offered?

The biography does not list specific session formats. Please confirm current session options before booking.

How are fees handled?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

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