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Luisa Passalacqua

Luisa Passalacqua, BACP

United Kingdom

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BACP counsellor - Anger and relationships

  • Attachment based work
  • CBT and DBT tools
  • Family conflict focus

About Luisa

Luisa Passalacqua is a BACP-registered counsellor in the United Kingdom with 12 years of practice. She helps people manage anger, deal with trauma and abuse, and navigate family conflict. Sessions are offered in English, French and Italian, and she accepts international clients.

Her work centres on talking through what is happening now and understanding past patterns that keep repeating. She uses a mix of approaches to match the person in front of her, including Attachment-Based, Client-Centred, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and DBT tools. That means practical techniques to handle strong feelings, and conversations about relationships and history.

Clients come for a range of concerns beyond anger. These include sleep problems, stress, anxiety, addiction, relationship and intimacy issues, grief, career strain, low self-esteem, and coping with life changes. She also addresses more specific areas such as abandonment, attachment issues, blended family concerns, body image and communication problems.

In sessions she offers space to name patterns like control issues, codependency and family of origin problems. There is attention to how past losses or trauma shape present reactions. Practical skills, clearer boundaries and greater self-understanding are part of the work.

To start, people complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule a first session. Fees vary with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time. The focus is on steady, manageable steps rather than quick fixes.

How therapeutic approaches translate to online work

Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on how early relationships shape current reactions and connection. Online conversations can trace patterns in relationships and how those patterns show up as anger or withdrawal. Client-Centred Therapy places the person and their experience at the centre of sessions, using open questions and reflective listening to help people say what matters most. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) offers practical steps to change unhelpful thoughts and behaviours, like breathing exercises, thought records and activity planning to reduce spikes of anger.

Figuring out which approach fits comes through working together. The therapist will review concerns, goals and preferences and suggest a combination of approaches. That recommendation can change over time as skills are practised and new issues emerge, and the client is invited to give feedback about what helps.

The biography does not list specific online formats, so please confirm current session options before booking. In general, online sessions make it easier to fit therapy around work and family life. They can allow shorter check-ins, reduce travel time and make it possible to keep going when relocations or international arrangements would otherwise interrupt progress. Registered or accredited professionals use these options to keep regular contact and help people apply skills between sessions.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Family conflictsTrauma and abuseSleeping disordersAnger managementCareer difficulties

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesSelf esteemBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCo-morbidityCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingImmigration issuesImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSelf-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodHypnotherapyJungian TherapyNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

12+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English, French, Italian

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of anger issues does she address?

She works with losing temper with close people, building resentment, and reacting to others' anger. Anger is listed alongside family conflict, trauma and sleep problems.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

She blends Attachment-Based and Client-Centred talking with practical CBT and DBT techniques. The mix aims to name patterns and teach practical skills for managing strong feelings.

How much experience does she have?

She has 12 years of professional experience working in the UK context. That experience includes work on trauma, family issues and anger management.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English, French and Italian. International clients are accepted.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not specify session formats. Please confirm current session options before booking.

How are fees handled?

Fees vary with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time. The exact cost depends on the chosen subscription tier and location.

What is the first step to begin?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule a first session.

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